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A SOLID RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE IS FOUNDED ON MUTUAL TRUST

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A relationship without trust cannot survive the test of time. It doesn't matter how much a couple love each other. If they cannot trust each other,their distrust eventually ruins the relationship. Therefore, if you want a good and solid relationship/marriage, it should be founded on mutual trust. Don't give your partner reasons to distrust you. You have to prove that you are indeed worth trusting, before you can be trusted. Remember, trust takes time. So don't be bumped, if your partner cannot trust you immediately, trust has to be earned.

Unhealthy Competition Is A Dream Killer!

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James Altucher Famously Said: "Your competition is not other people but the time you kill, the ill will you create, the knowledge you neglect to learn, the connections you fail to build, the health you sacrifice along the path, your inability to generate ideas, the people around you who don't support and love your efforts, and whatever god you curse for your bad luck" The need to compete with other people, is a profound trait of human beings. It doesn't matter your educational background, your status, family or upbringing. At some point in your life, you must have felt distressed and left behind by your mates. Being left behind must have given birth to the need to compete, to feel among, to belong. However, this need to compete with those around you, needs to to be checked. If it isn't it, will destroy everything you are or will ever be. First of all, it is of great import that you realise that you are a different person and your life is going to progr...

GENUINE SELF ESTEEM DOES NOT SEEK APPROVAL FROM OTHERS.

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Mandy Hale Famously Said: "You will never gain anyone's approval by begging for it. When you stand confident in your own worth, respect follows" The world today, is filled with superficial people who draw their self esteem from how many likes they have on Facebook, how many followers they have on Instagram and how many comments they get on Twitter. Social media has become the bane of society, because no amount of likes, an individual gets on social media, or the number followers can extinguished nor quenched that deeply rooted insecurity. It keeps getting deeper and deeper, until it completely ruins him/her. It is quite sad to see, that in a world of connectivity, people seem to be connected to everyone, expect themselves! The world is filled with people who spend countless hours online, with little or no time for themselves. Most people have no idea who they are or who they even want to be. In fact, most people today, appear to have no purpose whatsoever, except what ...

Why Are Good People Plagued With So Many Enemies?

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Will Smith famously said: "Throughout life people will make you mad, disrespect you and treat you bad. Let God deal with the things they do, cause hate in your heart will consume you too" Have you ever wondered why you keep doing your best to be nice to everyone, to be just, caring and loving but yet they go behind your back biting you? Have you ever wondered why it appears as though, bad people who perpetrate evil seem to be making more progress, getting richer than honest ones? Have you ever wondered, why so many people hate you for no reason and no matter how nice you are, you can't seem to placate them? Have you ever wondered what to do with your life? Because it seems every attempt you make fails, woefully? Do you ever wondered what would become of you when you get old?  Because at the moment, life doesn't seem to be looking good? Do you ever fear what your life would become? Because it seems meaningless at the moment? Are you terrified of the future? Are...

Questions You Should Ask Yourself Every Morning: What Are My Plans For Today And For The Future?

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Brian Tracy Famously Said: "All successful people men and women are big dreamers. They imagine what their future could be, ideal in every respect, and then they work every day toward their distant vision, that goal or purpose" The future belongs to those who plan their days, their actions, and follow their plan meticulously. Overtime, the Bible, philosophers, and great people from all works of life have all given strong evidence to prove that been ahead in life, is to plan ahead. You cannot succeed in life without plans, you cannot make your dreams a reality without plans, you cannot get things done without plans. Therefore, it is pertinent to plan your day a night before or the moment you wake up. Why? Because this will ensure you stay on track with your goals, it will help you make other achievements, and make your life so much easier, stress free and make you on course with your dreams. How do you plan your day/the future? For the day: begin a mental list (or write i...

Do Not Settle For A Mediocre Life

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Life is like a magnet, what you desire eventually finds you, what you always think about eventually becomes part of you. Thus,do not cage yourself in a box, do not settle for a mediocre life.This doesn't mean you should plot dishonest ways to make it in life. No! It only means as you journey through life be positive, believe in yourself and work towards your dreams. Eventually, your efforts will payoff.

TIPS FOR A HAPPY LIFE: "PAUSE BEFORE YOU JUDGE OTHERS"

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The world is filled with different people, on different   missions, enduring different circumstances. It is this unique circumstance, that shapes the people they become, the people they pretend to be and eventually, determines how they are remembered when the die. Therefore, be careful how you judge people, be careful how you point accusing fingers at them, be careful what you say about others behind their backs. Because life works in circles, you eventually get what give. So today, before you judge someone , pause and think, will your words edify them or bring them harm?