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A SOLID RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE IS FOUNDED ON MUTUAL TRUST

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A relationship without trust cannot survive the test of time. It doesn't matter how much a couple love each other. If they cannot trust each other,their distrust eventually ruins the relationship. Therefore, if you want a good and solid relationship/marriage, it should be founded on mutual trust. Don't give your partner reasons to distrust you. You have to prove that you are indeed worth trusting, before you can be trusted. Remember, trust takes time. So don't be bumped, if your partner cannot trust you immediately, trust has to be earned.

Unhealthy Competition Is A Dream Killer!

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James Altucher Famously Said: "Your competition is not other people but the time you kill, the ill will you create, the knowledge you neglect to learn, the connections you fail to build, the health you sacrifice along the path, your inability to generate ideas, the people around you who don't support and love your efforts, and whatever god you curse for your bad luck" The need to compete with other people, is a profound trait of human beings. It doesn't matter your educational background, your status, family or upbringing. At some point in your life, you must have felt distressed and left behind by your mates. Being left behind must have given birth to the need to compete, to feel among, to belong. However, this need to compete with those around you, needs to to be checked. If it isn't it, will destroy everything you are or will ever be. First of all, it is of great import that you realise that you are a different person and your life is going to progr

GENUINE SELF ESTEEM DOES NOT SEEK APPROVAL FROM OTHERS.

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Mandy Hale Famously Said: "You will never gain anyone's approval by begging for it. When you stand confident in your own worth, respect follows" The world today, is filled with superficial people who draw their self esteem from how many likes they have on Facebook, how many followers they have on Instagram and how many comments they get on Twitter. Social media has become the bane of society, because no amount of likes, an individual gets on social media, or the number followers can extinguished nor quenched that deeply rooted insecurity. It keeps getting deeper and deeper, until it completely ruins him/her. It is quite sad to see, that in a world of connectivity, people seem to be connected to everyone, expect themselves! The world is filled with people who spend countless hours online, with little or no time for themselves. Most people have no idea who they are or who they even want to be. In fact, most people today, appear to have no purpose whatsoever, except what