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Questions You Should Ask Yourself Every Morning: What Are My Plans For Today And For The Future?

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Brian Tracy Famously Said: "All successful people men and women are big dreamers. They imagine what their future could be, ideal in every respect, and then they work every day toward their distant vision, that goal or purpose" The future belongs to those who plan their days, their actions, and follow their plan meticulously. Overtime, the Bible, philosophers, and great people from all works of life have all given strong evidence to prove that been ahead in life, is to plan ahead. You cannot succeed in life without plans, you cannot make your dreams a reality without plans, you cannot get things done without plans. Therefore, it is pertinent to plan your day a night before or the moment you wake up. Why? Because this will ensure you stay on track with your goals, it will help you make other achievements, and make your life so much easier, stress free and make you on course with your dreams. How do you plan your day/the future? For the day: begin a mental list (or write i

Do Not Settle For A Mediocre Life

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Life is like a magnet, what you desire eventually finds you, what you always think about eventually becomes part of you. Thus,do not cage yourself in a box, do not settle for a mediocre life.This doesn't mean you should plot dishonest ways to make it in life. No! It only means as you journey through life be positive, believe in yourself and work towards your dreams. Eventually, your efforts will payoff.

TIPS FOR A HAPPY LIFE: "PAUSE BEFORE YOU JUDGE OTHERS"

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The world is filled with different people, on different   missions, enduring different circumstances. It is this unique circumstance, that shapes the people they become, the people they pretend to be and eventually, determines how they are remembered when the die. Therefore, be careful how you judge people, be careful how you point accusing fingers at them, be careful what you say about others behind their backs. Because life works in circles, you eventually get what give. So today, before you judge someone , pause and think, will your words edify them or bring them harm?

TIPS FOR A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE: ADMIT YOUR FAULTS

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Admitting your faults will save your marriage and relationship from a whole lot of problems. In fact, saying you are sorry will in no way diminish your worth but it will strengthen the bond between you and your partner. This three words 'I am sorry' is the reason why so many marriages and relationships are been destroyed. How do expect your partner to believe you love them,when you can't even apologize?

Are You A Good Wife?

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Wives and Wives in the making,support your man.Don't pull him down with negative words.Never call him a failure! Don't insult him in front of your children,in doing so you are sending them a message, that their dad is not worth respecting. Be careful how you address him in public. Encourage him and stand by him,even when he has nothing. For these are qualities of a good wife, who will enjoy a happy home.

WHO IS THE DEAD WEIGHT IN YOUR LIFE?

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Life is about progress. Sadly, when you discover that you are giving your best, but not receiving the best. Then, it's time to pause and think. The cause for this retrogression may be seen in the circle around you. Thus, you need to ask yourself: What goals do my friends have? Are their goals in tandem with mine? Are my friends having a positive influence in my life? For until your circle is healthy, progress and success may be a difficult feat to attain. Ensure your circle is always healthy.

TIPS FOR A HEALTHY SELF ESTEEM: IMBIBE A POSITIVE SELF TALK

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The loudest voice is not found in your friends or in your family. The loudest voice is found in your head,  because it is with you all day, at all times, even in your dreams. Therefore, it is pertinent that you talk to yourself in a positive, kind voice. It is an irony how we talk to a lot of people kindly, but we berate ourselves daily? The reason why you are so intimated is because of that negative voices in your head and until you silence them, you can never be truly happy.

HABITS THAT STEAL YOUR JOY: "THINKING YOU ARE WORTHLESS"

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Marilyn Monroe Famously Said: "Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are" Unhealthy habits are the fastest way to poisoning a person's life and extinguishing his light, until he becomes like a walking corpse! There are so many unhealthy habits, many people cultivate over time. It usually begins as a series of daily repeated actions and gradually metamorphoses into a catastrophic cycle which becomes difficult to break or shake. Your habits are part of you, in fact we cannot separate you from your habits, because what you do repeatedly, you eventually become. Thus, it is for this pertinent reason, you should be wary of the habits you cultivate and the ones you should discard. This brings us to 'the little habits that steal your happiness.' The first one is: 'Thinking You Are Worthless! Low Self Esteem is the driving force behind this thought, because it puts you in a state of misery, where you constantly believe, everyone is better than y